A puzzle, emerging from two separate pieces, begins on my refrigerator. I’m always looking for ideas that lead to more understanding of myself and the world around me. When I find something intriguing, I save it on my refrigerator door. One quote, in particular, has been there a long time, not because I fully understood it, but because I hoped one day it would become clear. Enter the first puzzle piece: Not long after the death of my son, Matthew, I ran across this quote by G